1. Listen First Properly than Reply
No one wants to listen at first, but this is the only way to make your talks more friendly. Be friendly while you speak. And answer up to the point to the questions asked to you. Give others a good chance to keep their words and sentences in front of you.This will not only engaged the person in talks, next to you but also left an impression of your listening to the person with whom you are talking.
2. At first, with Meeting, try Short and Correct Speaking
When you are going to mew people, and want to impress him/her from your skill of speaking and talking. Then you need to follow this second rule which can be elaborated as…It is always considered best when you speak appropriately to the person who is next to you. But whenever you are speaking it must be effective.
Here effective means your words must be clear and pronunciation must be good.Remember this, you don’t need to speak or talk short if you know well to the person who is next to you and talking altogether. Because when you talk to your near and dear friends you will safe and you are free to speak and talk as much as you feel.
3. Prepare your Talks
Almost this is very important to those categories of an individual if you are going for an interview or for any function to attend for speaking. Everything goes wrong if you don’t prepare your Topic.
Preparing your topic is just preparing for your talks. Don’t get confused. After having some idea what to say at first and how to deal with the person who will be next to you.You can plan high but does not required because it is not a speech, it’s just a talk nothing like a big mountain.
4. Try to make an eye contact
If you have the problem in making a good friendship with anyone then you need to know this. First Free yourself from any kind of fear of speaking, when you are fearless you will gain more confidence while you make any kind of talk.
You must be a good connector while you do any kind discussion. Just try to free your speaking and let your word/sentences flow out easily. And feel the presence of yourself in the talks.You can do this all by making a good eye contact but not staring, just a formal way!! As you make unconsciously with your dear friends while talking.
5. Practice Speaking to yourself in front of the mirror
This is the best place to overcome your all fear of speaking and taking. Yes, you can practice talking to yourself in front of the mirror in your home.This will not only enhance your way of speaking and talking but will boost your confidence.As you know Practice makes a man Perfect. So, what a big deal here ! just practice and practice.
6. Make a reading Habit
This can also help you out most for having a good and formatted way of speaking or talking. Read newspapers or blogs, or what so ever you wish for. Try speaking loud enough that you can hear your words clearly. Check your pronunciation.There are many apps, just download and get involved in it.All I want to say that read and learn.
7. Enjoy talking with a good person
Everybody is a good speaker, but it becomes hard for them to talk in a group or with a new being. Confidently! No matter whether you learn or grab anything from reading anything but if you really enjoy talking, then you will have no obstacle.
One of the most significant things is that feel free to speak. And talk with good people, who know your speaking skill will automatically become better.This happens without reading any book or blogs, but if you are aware of this rules than definitely, You will be a have the best understanding of this all. And you can improve your speaking skills.